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Supporting families parents children caregivers

through terminal illness

Helping everyone make the most of the time they have left together, enabling families to create lasting memories.

Discover our mission driven approach

Gunners Kids CIC is committed to supporting families in Cornwall with children when a parent or caregiver is facing a terminal illness. Our goal is to help families make the most of the time they have left together and to provide them with the necessary tools and support during this difficult period. Our vision is to enable families to create lasting memories with their loved ones by offering activities, workshops, information, and peer support in a safe, understanding, and welcoming environment.

For families when a parent or carer has a terminal illness, we provide:

  • Activity Days
  • Memory Making Workshops
  • Information
  • Peer Support
  • Support Boxes for Children

Why we do what we do

We aim to offer these meaningful opportunities, helping families create memories that extend beyond hospitals and illness

When someone is diagnosed with a terminal illness, both the individual and their loved ones experience grief and loss even before the person passes away. This anticipatory grief can persist for days, weeks, months and even years, depending on the duration of the illness. Anticipatory grief can provoke intense emotions, especially in children, often leaving them shocked, confused, frightened, and worried. These feelings can result in a loss of interest in activities, appetite changes, and sleep disturbances. At Gunners Kids CIC, we want to help children maintain their childhood during these challenging times.

When a parent or caregiver is terminally ill, finding the time and money for family activities can be challenging. Daily life is consumed with appointments, managing equipment, and caring for the ill person, often alongside work responsibilities, leaving little time for family life. At Gunners Kids CIC, we strive to support the entire family in creating memories and spending quality time together.

The loss of a parent is considered an Adverse Childhood Experience (ACE), which can lead to emotional and physical challenges later in life. Providing support can significantly mitigate these negative effects. By offering activities for families, we create opportunities for lasting memories and give children and their families a much-needed break from daily struggles. Engaging in these activities alongside other families fosters a sense of peer support for both children and their parents or caregivers.

Memory-building activities allow families to create keepsakes when their loved one has passed away. Unfortunately, many families facing such challenges often lack the time or energy to organise these activities themselves, as their lives are often consumed by just getting through the day. At Gunners Kids, we aim to offer these meaningful opportunities, helping families create memories that extend beyond hospitals and illness.

Living with a terminal illness can lead to people feeling isolated, this can be for many reasons. They may find it hard to talk to people, especially about their illness, or they may be coping with physical changes brought on by their condition. At Gunners Kids CIC, we aim to bring families together, creating a supportive community where they can connect and share experiences with others facing similar challenges. Through peer support, we hope to foster a sense of understanding, comfort, and strength among families during these difficult times.

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The team behind our services

Meet our dedicated team members who work tirelessly to fulfill our mission and make a positive impact.

Chris Gunner

Co-founder (deceased)

In January 2021, at the age of 39, Chris was diagnosed with bowel cancer. Following major surgery in December 2021, he was declared cancer-free. However, in March 2022, after being admitted to the hospital, Chris received the devastating news that his cancer had not only returned but had spread and was now terminal. Given a prognosis of two to three years, Chris sadly passed away in April 2024. Gunners Kids was born from Chris’s vision to provide support for families facing similar challenges. He was inspired to act after realising that no dedicated resources were available for his own children in Cornwall. Although Chris passed away before the organisation could officially launch, his wife is honoring his memory by bringing his dream to life.

Tamsin Chapman-Gunner

Co-founder & Director

Tamsin, wife of Chris Gunner who is the inspiration behind Gunners Kids, has dedicated much of her life to working in the charity and non-profit sector. When Chris envisioned an organisation to support families in similar situations, it felt natural for Tamsin to take the lead. After Chris’s passing, she brought his vision to life by establishing the organisation in his memory. As a mother of three, Tamsin deeply understands the challenges of balancing work and family life while caring for a terminally ill partner. She draws on her personal experiences to shape Gunners Kids, aiming to provide meaningful support to families facing the heartbreak of losing a parent at a young age.

Kerry Woodcock

Director, Protection and Estate Planning Advisor

Kerry has worked in Financial Services for over 24 years, specialising in Protection and Estate Planning. She is a big advocate for helping you to protect yourselves and your loved ones against life’s uncertainties including loss of income, premature death, critical illness. You are your biggest asset! When Kerry is not working, she loves to enjoy quality time with her partner and two children, visiting local beaches, sea swimming, walking and watching live music.

Natalie Beckett

Director, Safeguarding Lead